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THE SURROGATE JOURNEY: BIRTHING PURPOSE THROUGH OTHERS.  PART 3: THE WEIGHT OF THE WOMB — WHEN CARRYING GETS COMPLICATED Genesis 16:5–6 Then Sarai said to Abram, ‘You are responsible for the wrong I am suffering. I put my servant in your arms, and now that she knows she is pregnant, she despises me.’ Then Sarai mistreated Hagar; so she fled from her.” (NIV) šŸ” Quick Recap: In Part 2 , we met Hagar, the Egyptian servant chosen by Sarai to carry her child. Though not her dream, not her plan, and not her baby—she became the carrier of a promise she didn’t initiate. We learned how sometimes we are called to be the “other woman” in someone else’s destiny story—carrying, serving, interceding, and pushing someone else’s dream forward. šŸ¤° The Blessing that Brought Bitterness Hagar became pregnant. She was carrying the long-awaited seed. She should have been celebrated. But instead… she was mistreated. The one who chose her now chased her. The one who needed her now neglected her. The woman...
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PRESERVING OUR INTEGRITY: BEING THE SALT OF THE EARTH PART 17 - FINAL LAP


PRESERVING OUR INTEGRITY: BEING THE SALT OF THE EARTH PART 17 - FINAL LAP

Matthew 5:13

"You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot."

Welcome to Part 17 of our series, Preserving Our Integrity: Being the Salt of the Earth. In our previous chapter, we explored the crucial steps of setting boundaries, creating safe environments, and choosing Spirit-led accountability partners to safeguard our integrity. Today, we conclude this series by reinforcing practical strategies that will help us uphold Christian values in our daily lives.


Setting Boundaries

Establishing boundaries is vital for maintaining integrity and avoiding situations that may lead to compromise. Here are some practical steps:


Clear Communication

Example: Clearly and respectfully communicate your boundaries to those around you. Explain why these limits are crucial for your spiritual and personal well-being, ensuring they align with biblical principles and your values. Being guided by the Holy Spirit in this process will help you set boundaries that protect you and foster a supportive environment. Clear, gracious communication of your boundaries helps prevent misunderstandings and maintains healthy relationships.


Avoid High-Risk Situations

Example: Be aware of environments or situations that might trigger your weaknesses. For instance, if certain places or activities increase your temptation, proactively avoid them. Whether it's steering clear of social settings where you might be tempted to gossip or avoiding online content that could lead you astray, taking steps to avoid high-risk situations is essential for upholding your integrity and reinforcing your commitment to your values.


Stay Connected to Your Faith

Example: Engage regularly in spiritual practices to strengthen your integrity and resolve.

Daily Prayer keeps you connected with God, seeking His guidance and strength.

Bible Study deepens your understanding of God's principles, aiding in wise decision-making and moral discernment.

Fellowship with other believers provides encouragement and accountability, reinforcing your spiritual growth.


These practices help solidify your boundaries and keep you firmly rooted in your faith.


REFLECTION:

Integrity is not built in a day; it is sustained by consistent, intentional choices. How we handle temptations, communicate our boundaries, and engage in spiritual disciplines all contribute to the preservation of our integrity. Ask yourself:

Are there areas in my life where my boundaries need to be clearer?

Do I avoid situations that could lead me into compromise?

How committed am I to staying connected to my faith through prayer, study, and fellowship?



Make a conscious decision today to uphold your integrity in every area of your life. Identify one practical step you can take—whether it's setting a clearer boundary, avoiding a particular temptation, or deepening your connection with God. Integrity is a journey, and every step you take in faith strengthens your commitment to righteousness.


PRAYER:

Lord, please help me to set and maintain clear boundaries, avoid tempting situations, and stay deeply connected to You through prayer, study, and fellowship. Guide me to live out my integrity in all areas of my life. Amen.


What stood out to you in today’s devotional? Share your thoughts and reflections in the comments. Let’s grow together!


Thank you!



Prince Julius Nenebi-Darkson 

(EL-PJ God's penman)

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  1. Esi3 April 2025 at 07:27

    It is important to set boundaries to uphold our values as Christians, and this should be done by respectfully communicating to others why these boundaries are necessary.

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    1. EL-PJ God's penman3 April 2025 at 17:39

      Amazing! God bless you for this my lady šŸ™

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