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THE SURROGATE JOURNEY: BIRTHING PURPOSE THROUGH OTHERS.  PART 3: THE WEIGHT OF THE WOMB — WHEN CARRYING GETS COMPLICATED Genesis 16:5–6 Then Sarai said to Abram, ‘You are responsible for the wrong I am suffering. I put my servant in your arms, and now that she knows she is pregnant, she despises me.’ Then Sarai mistreated Hagar; so she fled from her.” (NIV) šŸ” Quick Recap: In Part 2 , we met Hagar, the Egyptian servant chosen by Sarai to carry her child. Though not her dream, not her plan, and not her baby—she became the carrier of a promise she didn’t initiate. We learned how sometimes we are called to be the “other woman” in someone else’s destiny story—carrying, serving, interceding, and pushing someone else’s dream forward. šŸ¤° The Blessing that Brought Bitterness Hagar became pregnant. She was carrying the long-awaited seed. She should have been celebrated. But instead… she was mistreated. The one who chose her now chased her. The one who needed her now neglected her. The woman...
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THE LIFE CYCLE OF SIN AS CHILDBEARING PART 16: NEGATIVE INFLUENCES (POISONOUS FOODS)

THE LIFE CYCLE OF SIN AS CHILDBEARING 
PART 16: NEGATIVE INFLUENCES (POISONOUS FOODS)


James 1:15

Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.



RECAP OF PART 15

In the last chapter, we explored how gossip acts as "junk food" for the soul, fueling jealousy and insecurity. Now, we turn our attention to Negative Influences (Poisonous Foods)—examining how harmful environments and associations can corrupt our hearts and draw us away from God.



2. Negative Influences (Poisonous Foods)


Bad for Growth:

Surrounding ourselves with negative people or environments that encourage jealousy, envy, or pride is like consuming poisonous foods during pregnancy. These toxic influences corrupt our hearts, nurture harmful desires, and lead us down a path toward sin.


Scripture Reference: “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.” — 1 Corinthians 15:33 (KJV)

This verse reminds us that the company we keep and the influences we accept deeply shape our character and spiritual health.




Analogy:

Just as a mother would avoid toxic substances during pregnancy to protect her child, we should avoid toxic influences that poison our hearts and lead us into destructive desires.



Choosing godly influences helps us protect our hearts, nurture a spirit of righteousness, and strengthen our walk with God. By seeking out positive, uplifting environments, we grow closer to Him and reflect His love.




REFLECTION:

Who or what influences your thoughts and actions the most? Are these influences helping you grow in God’s grace or pulling you away?





Call to Action:

Take time this week to evaluate your environment and relationships. Identify any negative influences and seek ways to minimize or remove them. Replace them with positive, encouraging people and activities that build your faith.





PRAYER:

Lord, guide me to recognize and avoid harmful influences. Help me surround myself with people and environments that encourage righteousness and draw me closer to You. Amen.




Next Part – Part 17:

Next, we’ll examine Lustful Desires (Sugar Overload)—exploring how unchecked cravings may seem sweet but ultimately d

amage our spiritual health and pull us away from God’s purpose.





šŸ“ŒLet’s Talk:

How can we practically distance ourselves from toxic influences without hurting relationships?

What qualities should we look for in people and environments that nurture spiritual growth?

Please kindly share your thoughts, testimonies, or questions—we grow better together.

Thank you!







Prince Julius Nenebi-Darkson 

(EL-PJ God's penman)


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  1. Esi11 June 2025 at 13:11

    People who encourage spiritual growth have the quality of authenticity. Meaning, they practice what they preach and are willing to admit faults and learn. Environments that encourage spiritual growth are non-judgmental, truth-centered, and make it safe to be honest without shame.

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    1. EL-PJ God's penman11 June 2025 at 21:51

      Absolutely true! Authenticity creates a safe space for real growth—both in individuals and in the community.
      God bless you, EsišŸ™

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