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HOBAB: PARTNERSHIP, COLLABORATION, AND GUIDE FOR THE JOURNEY PART 9: HONOR THE COMPASS IN OTHERS

HOBAB: PARTNERSHIP, COLLABORATION, AND GUIDE FOR THE JOURNEY
PART 9: HONOR THE COMPASS IN OTHERS


Numbers 10:29-32

Moses said to Hobab, the son of Reuel the Midianite, his father-in-law, “We are journeying to the place the Lord promised to give us. Come with us, and we will treat you well, for the Lord has spoken good concerning Israel.”

But Hobab replied, “I will not go, but return to my own land and family.”

Then Moses said, “Please do not leave us. You know how we are to camp in the wilderness, and you can be our eyes. And if you go with us, whatever good the Lord does to us, we will do to you.”



RECAP OF PART 8: Navigating Declined Help—When Hobab Says No

We explored Navigating Declined Help—how Hobab initially said no, and how Moses handled that rejection with perseverance and grace. We learned that “no” doesn’t always mean never, and that God can still move, even when others walk away.


In Numbers 10:31, Moses speaks with deep respect and conviction: “You know where we should camp in the wilderness, and you can be our eyes.” What a powerful statement. Moses honored Hobab’s gift—not just as a companion, but as a compass.


Recognizing Value in Others Enhances the Journey

It takes humility to admit, “I need your eyes.” Moses was a prophet led by God, yet he acknowledged Hobab’s practical knowledge of the terrain. This shows us that spiritual leadership does not eliminate the need for human insight and skills.


Scripture Highlight:

“Do not leave us. You know where we should camp in the wilderness, and you can be our eyes.” — Numbers 10:31



Life Application:

Learn to honor the people God places in your life—not just for what they do, but for who they are. Whether it’s a mentor, colleague, parent, or friend, acknowledge their input and presence. You’ll go further when you walk in honor.


You may have the vision, but someone else may carry the compass. Moses shows us that true leadership means recognizing and valuing the strengths of others. Don’t travel alone when God has placed gifted people around you.




REFLECTION:

Who are the “compasses” in your life?

Do you recognize and express gratitude for their input?

Have you ever ignored wise counsel that could’ve helped guide your path?




Call to Action:

Reach out and appreciate someone who’s been “your eyes” in the wilderness of life.

Commit to honoring the strengths of those around you in ministry, family, and life.

Reflect on where you may need to stop and ask someone for direction.




PRAYER:

Lord, thank You for the people You’ve placed in my life as guides and companions. Teach me to honor their wisdom and walk humbly alongside them. May I never be too proud to ask for help or too blind to see the value in others. In Jesus’ name, Amen.



šŸ”œ Next Part – Part 10: The Blessing of Shared Destinies

Some people are not just companions or guides—they are destiny partners. In Part 10, we will explore what it means to share not just the journey, but the inheritance, the purpose, and the promises.


When you honor those God sends, you unlock the blessing of walking together in purpose.

What does it look like to walk with people who are not just going your way—but are meant to finish with you?




šŸ’¬ Let’s Talk

Do you have people in your life you believe are connected to your God-given destiny?

How do you nurture and protect those covenant relationships?

Are you walking with partners—or just passengers?

Kindly drop your comments, questions, and suggestions to keep the connection alive.

Thank you!





Prince Julius Nenebi-Darkson 

(EL-PJ God's penman)


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