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THE SURROGATE JOURNEY: BIRTHING PURPOSE THROUGH OTHERS.  PART 3: THE WEIGHT OF THE WOMB — WHEN CARRYING GETS COMPLICATED Genesis 16:5–6 Then Sarai said to Abram, ‘You are responsible for the wrong I am suffering. I put my servant in your arms, and now that she knows she is pregnant, she despises me.’ Then Sarai mistreated Hagar; so she fled from her.” (NIV) šŸ” Quick Recap: In Part 2 , we met Hagar, the Egyptian servant chosen by Sarai to carry her child. Though not her dream, not her plan, and not her baby—she became the carrier of a promise she didn’t initiate. We learned how sometimes we are called to be the “other woman” in someone else’s destiny story—carrying, serving, interceding, and pushing someone else’s dream forward. šŸ¤° The Blessing that Brought Bitterness Hagar became pregnant. She was carrying the long-awaited seed. She should have been celebrated. But instead… she was mistreated. The one who chose her now chased her. The one who needed her now neglected her. The woman...
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HOBAB: PARTNERSHIP, COLLABORATION, AND GUIDE FOR THE JOURNEY PART 7: SHARED BLESSINGS, SHARED JOURNEY

HOBAB: PARTNERSHIP, COLLABORATION, AND GUIDE FOR THE JOURNEY
PART 7: SHARED BLESSINGS, SHARED JOURNEY


Numbers 10:29-32

Moses said to Hobab, the son of Reuel the Midianite, his father-in-law, “We are journeying to the place the Lord promised to give us. Come with us, and we will treat you well, for the Lord has spoken good concerning Israel.”

But Hobab replied, “I will not go, but return to my own land and family.”

Then Moses said, “Please do not leave us. You know how we are to camp in the wilderness, and you can be our eyes. And if you go with us, whatever good the Lord does to us, we will do to you.”



RECAP OF PART 6:Recognizing the Compass in Others

We explored the importance of Recognizing the Compass in Others. Hobab’s insight was more than optional—it was essential. Moses saw in him a guide, a seer for the journey. We learned that divine help sometimes comes in human form, and we must learn to honor it.


Moses didn’t just invite Hobab to guide—they were to share in the blessings too. This principle is a powerful one: those who help you in the journey also deserve a share in the joy. God’s blessings were never meant to be hoarded, but distributed among those who helped build, walk, and carry the vision.


Those Who Labor with You Deserve to Feast with You

In verse 32, Moses says, “If you come with us, we will share with you whatever good things the Lord gives us.” This is the heart of biblical partnership—mutual blessing. True collaboration recognizes, rewards, and celebrates contribution. This is not just honor; it’s kingdom principle.


Scripture Highlight:

“If you come with us, we will share with you whatever good things the Lord gives us.” – Numbers 10:32


Life Application:

Check your heart—are you walking with people but keeping all the fruit to yourself? Are you building with others and then letting them starve when harvest comes? If God has blessed you, He expects you to be a blessing.


Partnership without sharing is exploitation. If someone has helped you reach a level—spiritually, emotionally, financially—don't forget them when your season of blessing arrives. Moses teaches us that journeying together means celebrating together.



REFLECTION:

Are there people in your life who have helped you but haven’t yet tasted your thankfulness?

Do you struggle to share your blessings because of fear or pride?

Is there a blessing God gave you that was meant to be shared?




Call to Action:

Take time this week to bless someone who has helped guide or support you.

Write a note, send a gift, offer a helping hand—be intentional about sharing.

Live with an open hand, not a closed fist.




PRAYER:

Gracious Father, thank You for the people who have walked with me through the wilderness. Help me to be generous with all You’ve given me. May I never forget those who helped me rise. Teach me to share, honor, and bless others as You’ve blessed me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.



Next in Part 8: Navigating Declined Help—When Hobab Says No

What happens when the one you’re counting on says “I won’t go”? In the next part, we’ll unpack how to handle disappointment when trusted people turn away. Is it a closed door—or a test of perseverance? Let’s explore how to respond when Hobab says no.




šŸ“ŒLet’s Talk:

Have you ever walked a long road with someone only to see them back out when the blessing was near?

How do you handle the tension between generosity and rejection?

Let’s talk. Kingdom partnership means shared burdens and shared blessings—but not everyone will stay to celebrate. Are you still willing to give, even if they walk away?

Please kindly share your thoughts, testimonies, or questions—we grow better together.

Thank you!





Prince Julius Nenebi-Darkson 

(EL-PJ God's penman)


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  1. Esi20 June 2025 at 10:04

    It is important to honour and bless those who helped in your success.

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    1. EL-PJ God's penman20 June 2025 at 15:34

      Absolutely, Esi. Gratitude is the bridge between where we were and where we are. Honoring those who helped us rise is not just noble—it keeps us grounded and reminds us that success is never a solo journey.

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