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JUMPSTARTING YOUR LIFE—THE POWER OF DIVINE CONNECTIONS PART 8:WHEN IT’S TIME FOR AN UPGRADE—LETTING GO OF THE OLD TO EMBRACE THE NEW



THE STORY: A FRIEND FACED WITH A HARD DECISION

Romans 1:11-12 (NIV)

"I long to see you so that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to make you strong—that is, that you and I may be mutually encouraged by each other’s faith.

Welcome to Part 8 of our Series, Jumpstarting Your Life: The Power of Divine Connection. 

In Part 7, we saw how my landlady’s son, who had once been stranded, later became a helper to another driver stuck in the mud. We learned that helping others after receiving help is a key principle of life, and sometimes, we must recognize when we need assistance instead of struggling alone.


But what if the real issue isn’t about getting help but knowing when to move on?


PART 8: WHEN IT’S TIME FOR AN UPGRADE—LETTING GO OF THE OLD TO EMBRACE THE NEW


THE STORY: A FRIEND FACED WITH A HARD DECISION

I have a friend named Kwame who had been driving an old car for years. It wasn’t just any car—it had been his first car, filled with memories.

One day, after heavy rain, he went outside to start the car, but it refused to respond. It had been having minor issues for months, but this time, nothing worked. He called a mechanic who shook his head and said:

"Boss, at this point, you need to start thinking about a new car."

Kwame sighed. He knew the mechanic was right, but he struggled to let go. The car had been faithful in the past, but now it was becoming a liability.

It was a hard decision, but he finally let go and upgraded. And the first time he drove his new car, he said:

"I should have done this sooner! This feels so much better!"


LIFE LESSONS FROM THIS STORY


1️⃣ Some Things Are Not Meant to Be Fixed—They Need to Be Replaced


Many times, we try patching up old habits, relationships, or mindsets that are no longer helping us grow.


Like Kwame’s car, some things have served their purpose, and it’s time to move on.


"You cannot pour new wine into old wineskins." – Mark 2:22


2️⃣ Recognizing When God Is Calling You to a New Season


Kwame held onto his old car because of sentiment, but deep down, he knew it was time to upgrade.

Many times, we resist change out of fear, comfort, or nostalgia, but when God is calling us to a new level, we must trust Him.

"Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!" – Isaiah 43:18-19


3️⃣ Investing in Long-Term Growth Instead of Temporary Fixes


Instead of wasting money on constant repairs, Kwame realized a new investment would be better for the long run.

In life, we must learn to invest in real growth, not just quick fixes.

"A wise man builds his house on the rock." – Matthew 7:24


HOW TO KNOW WHEN IT’S TIME FOR AN UPGRADE

✔ When Something Requires Constant Repairs – If a friendship, job, or habit keeps draining your energy without progress, maybe it’s time for a fresh start.

✔ When You Feel Stagnant Instead of Growing – Growth should be progressive. If you’re stuck in cycles of frustration, ask if it’s time to level up.

✔ When God Opens New Doors – Sometimes, we keep knocking on closed doors, ignoring the new ones God is opening. Be sensitive to divine redirections.


REFLECTION:

What in your life have you been patching up instead of letting go?

Is there an opportunity or new season God is calling you into?

Are you afraid of moving on from something that no longer serves you?


PRAYER:

Lord, help me recognize when it’s time to embrace something new. Give me the courage to let go of what no longer serves me and step boldly into the next season You have for me. Amen.

COMING NEXT: PART 9 – "TRUSTING THE JOURNEY—WHEN FAITH REQUIRES A LEAP"

What if the upgrade requires a big step of faith? In Part 9, we’ll explore how to trust God when the next step seems uncertain.


Has your life ever felt like a stalled engine? Sometimes, all you need is the right connection to reignite your purpose! Stay connected, keep growing, and never stop moving forward.

Share your thoughts in the comments below! Don’t forget to follow. Drop your testimonies—we’d love to hear how God is working in your life!


Thank you! 🤝



  Julius Nenebi-Darkson 

(EL-PJ God's penman)



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